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Hair Care = Self-Care

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I have an intense love of all things natural hair, specifically my own natural hair.  What can I say, hair care is my self-care.  It’s the one thing I do for myself that truly gives me joy.

FYI this was one of my first posts back in January 2017, that I decided to revamp and reblog.  So let's get into it!
Natural Hair is Versatile
Natural Hair is Versatile

In my opinion, your natural hair is something that authentically belongs to you and no one else. It is a work of art.  A crown of jewels no one can ever take away from you.  And the best thing is, it grows straight out of your own heads; no purchase required!

How does any of this tie in to self-care you may ask?  Keep reading and I will tell you.

Now time to get personal:  As a woman, God has blessed me to be naturally nurturing.  I’m a person who always puts everyone else’s needs before my own.  Count on me to come to your rescue with

Self Reflection is Self-Care
Learn to Lead Yourself, Before you Attempt to Lead Others.

help in a blink of an eye and think nothing of it.   But you know what, over time attending to everyone else’s needs and not your own will slowly eat away at you like a cancer! It can riddle you with anxiety & depression (among other things).  At this point self-care becomes a must!  Self care is an essential tool needed to begin the healing process/or prevent mental illness all together!

When approached with the question, “What forms of self-care will you implement this week?”  My response was always, “I don’t know.”  It really would take me a while to think of things I wanted to do for myself, but wouldn’t due to lack of time, motivation, or money.

According to the Fort Garry Women’s Resource Centre

Self care is care provided “for you, by you.” It’s about identifying your own needs and taking steps to meet them. It is taking the time to do some of the activities that nurture you. Self-care is about taking proper care of yourself and treating yourself as kindly as you treat others.
You deserve good things.
You! Yes You. Deserve It #TheBest

So, one day I seriously thought about it and said to myself, “Olena do you realize you have been practicing a form of self-care all along?” I thought about how I consistently make an effort to care for my own natural hair .  It’s part of my weekly routine.

Think about it fellow naturalistas.  While caring for your own hair or having someone else do it for you, you will/are able to:

  • Feel joy –  Who doesn’t like their hair clean and looking good!
  • Practice mindfulness – Concentrate on how you hair looks, smells, and  feels.  Take some deep breaths.
  • Improve self-esteem –  It’s a proud feeling to see what you have accomplished and even better when others notice.
  • Feel a sense of achievement – Once your hair care session is done, you will be able to cross it off  your, “Things To Do.”
  • Feel relaxed – Tension is relieved when your scalp is massaged, or the heat of a hair dryer hits your shoulders
  • Give you a chance to read – While deep conditioning or sitting under a hair dryer, it’s the perfect time to catch up on things you want to read.
  •  Participate in retail therapy – Buying hair accessories, head wraps, or hair products is fun, and will showcase your creativity.
  • Initiate healthier living –  When you drink more water, take vitamins, and eat more fruits & vegetables; it is good for your hair and overall health.

So do you see what I mean?  In my opinion caring for my natural hair takes me to my happy place.  It calms me down and allows me to express myself in my own original way.   Apparently, others enjoy it as well, as seen in the growth of my Instagram platform.

My Question Regarding Self Care

Have you integrated some sort of self-care into your life?  What ways do you practice self-care on a regular basis.  Would you like to see more posts regarding mental wellness?  Let me know, and take care of yourselves! And as always, don’t forget to like, subscribe, comment, and share!


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6 thoughts on “Hair Care = Self-Care”

  1. Yes, yes, yes! I am the same way in overextending myself to help people I care about, to worry over others. Going natural was one big thing I did just for me, for my well being, and it makes me feel better when I see how much my hair and I have grown, just from caring a little more about me.

    1. Yes isn’t that wonderful being a natural and taking care of your own needs🤗 It’s just the so calming and I truly enjoy it. To see what happens what I care for what grows out of my head is wonderful!😁🌹

  2. This is all so true! I embarked on a natural hair journey about a month ago and whilst it’s frustrating sometimes when my hair doesn’t do what I want you’re so right – this is authentically me and I need to embrace it! 💞

    1. I’m so glad you decided to go back to your natural crown of hair! Trust me, the more you get to know your hair the better you will be able to understand it and be proud of it. Thank you so much for stopping by my neck of the woods. I hope to hear more from you in the future!

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